Tony Robbins is an entrepreneur, bestselling author, and one of the top business strategists in the United States. All that being said, there’s a Tony Robbins cult that has been established. Many hang on his every word when it comes to advice about life as well as business.
Just as there are believers, there are also those who believe that it’s just one big Tony Robbins scam. They don’t believe in who he is or what he has to say, and that he’s just scamming people who buy his books, watch his videos, and pay money to see him in person.
Why do people believe that Tony Robbins is a fraud? We’re going to take a closer look.
The Controversy of Tony Robbins
There’s a lot of controversy that surrounds Tony Robbins, especially when you hear more about his story and how he got his start.
He is described as a self-made millionaire and current life coach and is one of the longer-running advocates of motivational speaking and self-awareness. At 59 years old, he has had his supporters and detractors over the years, making him somewhat of a controversial figure.
He’s Been Involved in the #MeToo Movement
Recent events have made him a target of women’s rights groups and the #metoo movement after allegations of repeated sexual misconduct involving women have surfaced. Based on the current cultural climate, this is likely to spell doom for his book sales and speeches, which bring in a tidy sum of money for him.
When accusing someone of being a scam artist, you need to have some substantial evidence to back it up, especially when considering that Robbins has a few million dollars to pay for lawyers and settlements.
This reality may become very important in the near future, as some of the recent accusations have him selecting women from the audience who are invited to meet with him personally after his motivational talks. Time will tell how much these recent events will impact his marketability, so for now we should just let sleeping dogs lie.
How He Got His Start is Questionable
Long before Tony Robbins was accused of inappropriate behavior with women, people were accusing him that the whole Tony Robbins scam was legit because of how he got his start.
While he likes to say that he is a self-made millionaire, many question if he’s been completely honest. As CNBC explains, he was a part-time janitor who was only making $40 a week. Then, he invested in himself and went on to create a billion-dollar empire.
It’s not quite believable, is it? After all, if everyone were to take his advice, why aren’t we all billionaires right now?
People were calling him a scam artist decades ago and for various reasons. People may fail to get any benefit from these motivational speakers, life coaches, and others in the burgeoning Personal Development industry.
However, in the vast majority of cases, you are seen as the problem behind the problem of being unsuccessful. Often you are encouraged to buy another book (of which Robbins has many) or spend more money to attend another seminar. The underlying idea behind Robbins’ scam of “If I can do it, you can do it too” is that if you fail to make it, you are the problem.
It is worth noting here that even major, reputable publications have gotten into the act, supporting Robbins’ approach to success and wealth. Fortune Magazine once referred to him as the “CEO Whisperer.”
When it comes to settling the question of how he got his start, he usually cites these words of wisdom: “Some people see things that were done, and they ask why. I look at things that were never done and ask, why not?”
He Charges Ridiculous Amounts of Money for Weird Things
One of the most common things you’ll hear Tony Robbins cult followers talking about is the fire walk. This is where people walk across hot coals barefooted as a way to overcome their fears.
That’s not the end of it, though. Most of the seminars where this is available costs $400.
In the realm of scam artistry, the first question that comes to mind is why would someone think that burning the skin off the sole of someone’s feet somehow benefits them? The second question is, who would pay $400 for the “honor”?
It may be that the long history of Robbins financial success has raised him to guru status despite the fact that he has left a trail of unsuccessful people behind. Before “It’s not you, it’s me” became standard cultural humor, Robbins was performing the “It must be you” shtick.
If one is going to accuse someone of being a scam artist, they should have a working knowledge of how the scam works. Opinions and failures are not actual evidence since it really might be the person’s fault. Here we can look at one person who actually took those Tony Robbins books and seminars to heart and found himself looking foolish – to himself.
As it turns out, the person is an experienced Professional Developer himself. We will use other examples later, but for now, we can lay a foundation for which to examine those other claims of Robbins being a scam.
For those who question whether walking across hot coals will actually conquer fears, the Hollywood Reporter discusses how many people have ended up being taken to the hospital as a result of burns on their feet.
It’s doubtful that any of those people are suddenly true believers about what Tony Robbins can do.
$3,000 for a Tony Robbins Event?
When you want to talk about the Tony Robbins scam possibilities, just look at what it will cost to go to one of his events. One person talked about going to the event, spending $3,000, and not wanting to “drink the Kool-Aid.” As this story was shared by Medium.com, it goes on to explain all about the event – including how many people were there and what kind of info was shared.
Most of the event was run by Robbins’ assistant rather than Tony Robbins himself. That would be strike #1.
Strike #2 is that there was a disclaimer shared with everyone: “The statements in this show are not intended to offend the medical profession.”
You know what that means, right? The majority of what was shared was pseudoscience rather than ACTUAL science.
Strike #3 is the cost of the event in comparison to what you actually get. Many of the bigger events are three or four days, such as the “Unleash Your Greatness with Tony Robbins” experience. It’s talk, talk, talk. There are no one-on-one workshops or brainstorming.
And if you’ve ever tried to sign up for one of the events, it looks like an infomercial – but wait, there’s more! You’ll get offer after offer to add onto the event with a “Pre-Event Power Prep,” the chance to donate meals, and more.
With things like “You’re one step away from SAYING YES to your next level” make it easy to see why many people believe that a Tony Robbins cult is alive and well.
There are Tony Robbins Testimonials
If it isn’t a Tony Robbins fraud empire, there has to be proof that his methods have worked for people, right? Sure. There are testimonials, but some of them get weird…
Jason, presumably not his real name to avoid further embarrassment, wrote a blog detailing his personal experiences with the Tony Robbins approach to success. He succinctly sums up three levels personal developers take to set up their followers for the scam to come.
Remember that these levels don’t apply to every life coach or personal development guru but are worth reading about so at least you know what to look for in the future. The basis of the levels, according to Jason, is personal and emotional deception.
The first level is what Jason calls “the blatant lies.” If you are wondering how people can fall for such an obvious tactic and be completely oblivious as to what is coming down the road, continue reading. Part of the setup occurs on the Internet.
Back in Robbins’ early days, he was limited to books and free seminars to lay the foundation, but modern technology has made his task even simpler. If you’ve ever seen a .pdf file that is willing to tell you a secret trick for free, you have seen level one in real life.
The scammers will simply lie to their audience and bring on someone who is willing to give a personal testimonial to back up the blatant lie.
There are Psychological Games Being Played
Once the scammer has you believing them at the beginning, you have already been set up for the next step. After all, why would someone lie to me? When you have bought into the most obvious lies, everything after that becomes easier for people like Robbins.
But the victim has psychologically gone past the point of no return, which is: if it sounds too good to be true, it is. Now there is nothing that sounds too good to be true when it comes from the mind of the scammer.
Level two is more subtle. While the victim now believes that whatever the guru says is true, the scammer needs to take the foot off the accelerator lest he draw too much attention to his wild claims. So level two involves mixing in the truth with the foundational lies.
This gives the victim room to ask questions and get feedback from friends and family, and defend their devoted following of the scammer by stating truths. While Jason lists a number of these truth-lie combinations, only the critical ones will be mentioned here.
He Asks You to Leave Your Comfort Zone
Learning to leave your comfort zone – How many times have you heard this phrase? The obvious problem with this is whether you are looking before you leap out of your comfort zone.
The idea may not be a complete leap of faith, but whatever path you redirect yourself to will require an equal amount of time – or longer – to return to should the new zone isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. But understand the underlying tone here: trust me.
Aligning your actions with your desires – The suggestion here is that your current lifestyle isn’t aligning your actions with your desires. If you want to make a lot of money, a desire many people who are listening to professional life coaches have, it just might be the wrong thing to do.
It is only the scammer who wants you to follow his instructions because their egomania demands that you can do what I do if you do what I tell you. If you are wondering if they really believe what they are saying, it is a fair question.
You’re Told to Re-Examine the People You’re Around
The presumption here is that you may not be meeting or networking with the right people. Improving your social skills will move you from the “lower” company you have been with and get elevated to the people who have the money and power to make things happen for you.
Of course, asking why these people would want to associate with me to begin with is a fair question. Ask yourself if millionaires and billionaires spend any time honing their social skills.
The truth is, all these areas and the ones not listed are true – up to a point. We can improve in many areas of our lives and we don’t need someone to tell us something that is obvious. But as was mentioned before, it’s all about the combination that will get you to defend your guru because what he is telling you is obvious.
Now the direction of things has turned from listening to what they are saying to how you think of yourself. From outward to inward, and once you take this step your focus will be on applying what is being said rather than what is being said. There is no reason to question anything because you trust them.
There are a Lot of Steps, with a Lot of Assumptions
At the third and final level, there is the manipulation that will cost you money, time, and much more. You have arrived at the point where you are hopeful, and as the guru becomes more assertive in their speech and actions (the idea of implicit trust) so now comes a technique that you should immediately recognize.
The guru asks a question that shifts your focus away from yourself. This is a setup. Jason uses the example of “Who do you love the most?” with the answer likely being “anyone but myself.” Part two is to get you to point back at yourself by telling yourself you should love you the most.
What follows is one of those stories that tugs on your heartstrings, designed to get you to stop thinking and turn back inward to yourself. When the initial question is asked again, the answer is obvious.
Now Jason uses several specific examples of how being mesmerized by this approach can affect a person’s behavior. Citing from Robbins’ own documentary video, Jason uses the example of how he got a woman to take the stage in front of 2,500 people, call up her current boyfriend, and break up with him.
The fair question to ask here is what person in their right mind would listen to the advice of someone whom they barely know, if at all? The follow-up question is, does acceding to the wishes of another that can adversely affect your life make any sense at all?
Tony Robbins Makes Dangerous Requests
If your best friend told you that you need to get rid of your current spouse, would you just go and do it? Would you do it in front of 2,500 total strangers? Most people would scream “no,” yet this event actually took place. When a person can exert that much control over another, it’s time to call them out for what they are – a scammer.
The Tampa Bay Times covered a story about Robbins running a seminar in Tampa, Florida. He literally asked people to jump off of a bridge and into the water. Naturally, there were people who were terrified of the possibilities.
What you cannot miss for any reason is the types of people contained in that list: cult leaders? Revolutionaries? Calling out the inclusion of the cult leader is an easy one, but “revolutionaries” deserve separate consideration.
As a matter of history, not all revolutions, or revolutionaries, were good ones. In fact, history is replete with examples of how entire nations were led astray by the manipulation of others.
Adolf Hitler comes to mind. For anyone to call Hitler successful in any sense of the word is borderline insanity. Yet no one denies the power and influence he had over an entire nation.
To extend the thought a bit further, it is worth noting that people who were not buying into his manipulation – the nations he invaded – only saw him for what he was. What is interesting is that there are people today who defend his actions, as many who also defend Robbins.
Here’s what’s crazy. When Robbins asks people to jump off a bridge into the water, he turns it into a learning moment. Those who do so with certainty are congratulated, while the ones who are nervous and scared are lectured.
It comes down to this, as Robbins explains: “Someone who has certainty, even if they’re wrong, will lead other people.”
He Has Strange Ideas About Health
Tony Robbins is an author. He’s an entrepreneur. He’s also a bit of a fitness nut. However, it’s important to note that he does not have a degree in medicine, sports therapy, or anything else that would signal that he knows what he’s talking about when it comes to health.
And yet, he dispenses health advice on a regular basis. He has mini trampolines that he uses regularly, including before every major event. He believes that jumping on it will not only get him fired up but also help with lymphatic drainage.
While there are a few health benefits to jumping on trampolines, it can also lead to serious injuries – which is why it’s important to talk about the exercise with a doctor before simply joining the Tony Robbins cult.
Written by Bill Vix
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